The Best 80's Movies!!!!

I was feeling a bit nostalgic today. I love movies, as most of you know, and I have seen a lot of them. I have never been shy about the fact that I believe that the 80's produced the best films in terms of entertainment and lasting value. They may have not always been award winning caliber, but they have stood the test of time. So, here is my list of 80's movies that are must sees(at least once). They are in no particular order I broke them into genres to make viewing easier. Most of them could be argued into other genres as most 80's films were comedies pretending to be actions or drams. The asterisks denotes my personal favorites, though I do love them all. So, if you haven't seen one, do it! Enjoy!

Action Adventure
Platoon(1986)
Raiders of the Lost Ark(1981)
Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom(1984)*
Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade(1989)
Top Gun(1986)
Die Hard(1988)
Glory(1989)*
Beverly Hills Cop 1 and 2(1984, 1987)
Escape from New York(1981)*
Lethal Weapon 1 and 2 (1987, 1989)*
Red Dawn(1984)
Young Guns(1988)
Uncommon Valor(1983)*

Sci-fi/Fantasy
Back to the Future 1 and 2(1985, 1989)*
Star Wars Empire Strikes Back(1980)
Star Wars Return of the Jedi(1983)*
Star Trek II: The Wrath of Kahn(1982
Star Trek III: The Search for Spoke(1984)
Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home(1986)*
E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial(1982)
The Princess Bride(1987)
Starman(1984)
The Beastmaster(1982)*
Big Trouble in Little China(1986)*
Howard the Duck(1986)*
Masters of the Universe(1987)*
Return to Oz(1985)
The Running Man(1987)
Flight of the Navigator(1986)
The Last Starfighter(1984)*
RoboCop(1987)
TRON(1982)
Willow(1988)*
Enemy Mine(1985)
Mad Max Beyond Thunderdome(1985)
Batman(1989)
The Terminator(1984)
Labyrinth(1986)
Legend(1985)*

Animation/Kids
Santa Claus: The Movie(1985)*
The Chipmunk Adventure(1987)
The Land Before Time(1988)
The Muppets Take Manhattan(1984)*
An American Tail(1986)*
The Neverending Story(1984)
The Secret of NIMH(1982)*
The Little Mermaid(1989)
The Fox and the Hound(1981)
Benji the Hunted(1987)

Drama
The Karate Kid 1 and 2(1984, 1986)
The Boy Who Could Fly(1986)
Spacecamp(1985)
Dead Poets Society(1989)*
Driving Miss Daisy(1989)
Eight Men Out(1988)
Full Metal Jacket(1987)
Lucas(1986)
Mississippi Burning(1988)
The Outsiders(1983)
Project X(1987)*
Rain Man(1988)
Gleaming the Cube(1989)
Hoosiers(1986)
La Bamba(1987)
WarGames(1983)
Lean on Me(1989) *
Cocktail(1988)
Cocoon(1985)*
Cocoon: The Return(1988)
Commando(1985)
Steel Magnolias(1989)*
Stand by Me(1986)
Field of Dreams(1989)
Footloose(1984)
Dirty Dancing(1987)
The Breakfast Club(1985)
Pretty in Pink(1986)

Horror/Thriller
Critters(1986) *
The Shining(1980)
Twilight Zone: The Movie(1983)
The Monster Squad(1987)*
My Best Friend is a Vampire(1988)
Night of the Comet(1984)
Night of the Creeps(1986)
A Nightmare on Elm Street(1984)*
Nightmare on Elm Street 2(1985)*
Killer Klowns from Outer Space(1988)*
Friday the 13th(1980)
Fright Night(1985)
The Gate(1987)
Halloween II(1981)
House(1986)
House II(1987)*
Creepshow(1982)
Aliens(1986)*
The Thing(1982)
They live(1988)
Pet Sematary(1989)
Predator(1987)
Maximum Overdrive(1986)
Lady in White(1988)
Cujo(1983)
Cat's Eye(1985)
Children of the Corn(1984)
Child's Play(1988)
The Abyss(1989)
Gremlins(1984)*
The Lost Boys(1987)*
Poltergeist(1982)*
Poltergeist II(1986)

Comedy
Uncle Buck(1989)*
Big Top Pee Wee(1988)
Pee-Wee's Big Adventure(1985) *
Clue(1985)
The Toy(1982)
Back to School(1986)
Haunted Honeymoon(1986)
License to Drive(1988)
Little Monsters(1989)*
Mr. Mom(1983)
Teen Wolf(1985)
Trading Places(1983)
Brewster's Millions(1985)
Coming to America(1988)
Spaceballs(1987)*
Turner and Hooch(1989) *
Stripes(1981)
3 Men and a Baby(1987)
Three Amigos(1986)*
Short Circuit(1986)
Innerspace(1987)*
The Goonies(1985)
Overboard(1987)*
The Money Pit(1986)
My Stepmother is an Alien(1988)
Vacation(1983)
Christmas Vacation(1989)*
Nine to Five(1980)*
Major League(1989)
Little Shop of Horros(1986)
Look Who's Talking(1989)
The Wizard(1989)*
Twins(1988)
Good Morning, Vietnam(1987)
The Great Outdoors(1988)*
Plains, Train and Automobiles(1987)
Harry and the Hendersons(1987)*
Honey, I Shrunk the Kids(1989)
Crocodile Dundee(1986)
Troop Beverly Hills(1989)
Ferris Bueller's Day Off(1986) *
Ghostbuster(1984)*
Ghostbuster II(1989)
*batteries not included(1987) *
Weekend at Bernie's(1989)
Big(1988)
The Burbs(1989)*
Adventures in Babysitting(1987)
Beetlejuice(1988)*
Mannequin(1987)
Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure(1989) *
Who Framed Roger Rabbit(1988) *
Real Genius(1985)
Sixteen Candles(1984)
Weird Science(1985)

Is Miley to blame?

I have been seeing so many postings regarding the VMA's. Some positive, more negative. The positive are directed at the reunion of N'Sync. I get it. N'Sync was huge and it makes people feel good to see bands they love get back together for one more show. Now the negative, which is everywhere, is directed really at one person, Miley Cyrus. Now some could make an argument for Lady GaGa as well, but it's mostly directed at Miley.

I was reading that parent groups are outraged that MTV and the VMA's would allow something like that that is so inappropriate for children. First of all, it's really inappropriate for everyone, not just kids. Secondly, I think they are completely nuts, because this is MTV and the VMA's. What did they think it was, PBS? They have been pushing buttons since they started. This isn't the first time something like this has happened and I'm sure it's not the last. Now, I'm not condoning this by any means, but parents, get a grip and know what your kids are watching. That's on you, not MTV.

Now the real tragedy in all of this is the ridicule Miley Cyrus is getting by everyone. Christians especially. Now, I haven't blasted her for what happened but I did find myself making light of it. This is really not something to ridicule or take lightly. This is a lost little girl. I think we forget that sometimes. Celebrities are people. People that need Jesus just as much as I do and deserve forgiveness just as much as I do. We tend to treat them like they don't really exist in reality. That they are just people who show up on our TV screens. I saw some horrible posts about her. That's not what she needs. That's not what her family needs.

Where has our compassion gone? Where has our care for our fellow man gone? She is someones daughter and grandaughter! She really exists. She deserves our thoughts not our ridicule. She deserves our prayers and petitions before a Holy God. I used to think that praying for celebrities was kinda weird. But why does Jenny down the street who's struggling with addiction deserve my prayers more than them.

I will end with this. Miley Cyrus deserves to be prayed for by believers. Not torn to death for her actions. That's what the world does. It's not what we are supposed to do. I can honestly say for the first time today I prayed for a celebrity because I lifted Miley up to my God who performs miracles and can change lives. You should do the same.

Top Ten Lists!

My last few posts have been a little deep and heavy so I figured I would lighten it up with some of my top tens. So, here goes.

TOP TEN GREATEST PRO-WRESTLERS OF ALL TIME:

10. Mankind/Mick Foley
9. Hulk Hogan
8. Stone Cold Steve Austin
7. The Undertaker
6. Rowdy Roddy Piper
5. Owen Hart
4. Macho Man Randy Savage
3.Brett "The Hitman" Hart
2. Andre the Giant
1. Shawn Michaels


TOP TEN MOVIES OF ALL TIME:

10. The Monster Squad
9. Big Trouble In Little China
8. Miracle
7. Star Wars: Empire Strikes Back
6. Monty Python and the Holy Grail
5. The Patriot
4. Mr Hollands Opus
3. Star Trek VI: The Undiscovered Country
2. The Jerk
1. The Last of the Mohicans


TOP TEN VIDEO GAMES OF ALL TIME:

10. Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time(N64)
9. Ghosts and Goblins(NES)
8. Super Mario 64
7. Goldeneye (N64)
6. Counter Strike
5. Bioshock 2
4.Elder Scrolls: Skyrim
3. Half Life 2
2. Age of Empires( 1 and 2)
1. The Legend of Zelda(NES)


TOP TEN BANDS OF ALL TIME:

10. Lynyrd Skynyrd
9. Styx
8. Queen
7. Def Leppard
6. Huey Lewis and The News
5. Mercy Me
4. Oasis
3. Weezer
2. Guns N Roses
1. Bon Jovi


TOP TEN TV SHOWS OF ALL TIME:

10. Quantum Leap
9. One Tree Hill (guilty pleasure)
8. Heroes
7. Saved By the Bell
6. Golden Girls
5. Cheers
4. Frasier
3. The Walking Dead
2. Star Trek: The Next Generation
1. Seinfeld


These were very tough and I have so many honorable mentions I won't bother posting them. Enjoy and discuss!

Really, Church!

Ok, wow. So many things are running through my mind right now. I have a feeling this post will really live up to the "Ramblings" name. Let me start with this. If you didn't read my last blog post, stop reading and read that first.....................ok, hopefully either you listened and are back, already read it or just didn't listen. Regardless that's fine.

I first have to say that God is amazing for what He does even though I don't deserve any of it. Throughout the past few months I have been on mission and searching deep within my own soul to find passion again. If you knew me 5 year ago and then had to endure me the past 2 years you would have seen the difference. I was stale, angry, bitter, untrusting, stagnant, passionless, lacking faith etc. It was miserable. I truly thank those of you who endured. Here is the thing though, as I was began realizing what was going on in my life I started trying to find the passion, instead of allowing God to ignite it. That's where I was wrong and so many of us are wrong. God has to invoke something within us and we have to allow Him to do so. We cannot live on our own abilities. That's what I was trying to do. So, these past few months I knew I was missing something. Over the past few weeks, I finally took a step back and said "God, work in me!" It never ceases to amaze me that when you tell God to go wild, He does! He has ignited the flames of my soul. The engine is running again. And through me letting God do His thing through His Spirit, my heart is feeling the pangs of my sin and the churches sin. Things that I have overlooked in the past are coming to light and making me say, "Hold on a second, that's not ok." It's overwhelmingly exciting for me! So, here is the ramble.....

As God's Spirit runs wild within me a new passion has emerged. I haven always and at the core of me, will always be a youth guy. God has put youth on my heart ever since the moment I accepted Him. But my love and my passion for youth also was my idle. Let me be clear, I absolutely love youth. I love working with them, speaking with them, teaching them, hanging out with them. All of it! For crying out loud, I still work with them. The problem was I became so attached to that area of ministry, I became so focused on my care and my love for youth, that I began forsaking the church. And for some of us it might be something else, like children or seniors. I forgot the fact that God called me to minister period. Yeah, my gifted area is youth. That's where I feel safe and comfortable(part of the problem). But as a minister of the Gospel my love has to be for God's Church. Not this made up youth club, that I made the church. The church is all of God's people and for me instead of having to deal with adults(whom I find stubborn and most of the time unteachable)I decided to separate myself from them. I seriously mean it when I feel that I youth are much easier to work with then adults. But that's not the calling God placed on me or anyone else. He called me to be a ambassador of Him. I was wrong. And if you are separating yourself from some group of the church, STOP! It's not what He wants. He tells us to go and make disciples. He didn't say, "Josh, go and make only young disciples. Chris will make old disciples. You have your bases covered." God, doesn't differeniate like that. But we try to justify it by either which age group we are in or who we feel comfortable around. Some of the best discipling I have received is from people who are way older than me. No more excuses. This leads me to my next ramble....

As Christians we have to stop making excuses for everything. I'm as guilty as anyone. It's like every bad decisions we make we try to make an excuse and we do it for others too! Well, they are going through a tough time or it's stressful at my job or the church is big so we can't possibly get to everyone. NO! Not anymore should we have these excuses. Ok, times are tough, but that is no excuse for UnGodliness! Ok, you have a stressful job, be happy you have one! Ok, that church is big, maybe if you can't get to everyone, its time to downsize and plant another church! I'm weary of us making excuses for our sinful behavior. Just admit it we are wrong, repent and make it right! Also, we, as the church, need to stop justifying our bad behavior to make ourselves feel better! I mean really, we don't evangelize and our excuse is I'm not that good at it or I gave them a pamphlet or even for those that will go out, " Well, I went door to door." Come on, Church! Evangelism is more than passing out a piece of paper and knocking on a door. It takes commitment, it takes time, it commands us to actually take our schedule and throw it out the window so that we can build relationships with people! That's what God wants! We have to stop hiding behind smoke screens that make us feel like what we are doing is making a difference. I use to tell myself that bad things are happening because I'm doing what God wants and I'm under attack. I mean really, we tell people that! Well, if you are doing things right, you are will be under attack. OR MAYBE, I'm not doing things right and that's why things suck! Why do we need to hide behind this wall of lies to ourselves just to make us feel better. I already feel bad for how certain things in ministry have gone, maybe if I would have taken more responsibility and owned up to it instead of trying to justify it and others around me trying to justify it things could have changed. We need to be honest with ourselves as the church. I'm going to shed some real honesty right now. The outside world has a true picture of what we are, they see it! Why can't we. Something has to give! We have to stop making excuses all the and justifying our messed up sinful behavior and own up to it so we can make the change.

I believe with all my heart that God has the perfect vision for His church and we have taken that perfect vision and made our substitutions. Guess what!? We can't make it better even though we try. It was already perfect. We have to stop programmizing the church and once again justifying it by calling it ministries. Why can't the models in scripture work today? Let's be real here, they were not doing anything when it came to ministry that was culturally exclusive. The way they went about it was God-given passion for the church. So, why do we think that we need to vamp things with our fallen, Godless, 21st century way of doing things. We focus more on our buildings then going out to the people. PEOPLE WAS WHAT THE CHURCH WAS ABOUT THEN!!!!!!! We have to get back to the fundamentals of Scripture. That is our guide because it is completely God inspired and perfect. I love Christian music and authors, but that cannot be our foundation. They are not the heros! They are the vessels. We put them up on pedestals like they are rockstars. I never want to be that person. I never want someone to go we have to get Josh Taylor because he is so awesome and speaks great! When we let God in, we are all Pauls, Billy Grahams, Chris Tomlins, etc...... We have to realize it is about His church. Something that just popped in my head and its a question we have to ask ourselves. Do we read Christian books or listen to Christian music more then we read our Bible or quietly listen for God? Maybe that's where the problem is. We are always going to someone else for the answer instead of going straight to Him. Just a thought.

Next rant.......OLDER GENERATION!!!! This ones for you! I have been a Christian for 10+ years now. Where are you? We need you still! You are the ones who have to take the younger generation and help mold them. Christians says that's your job! Besides sharing the Gospel, you have to disciples us! Far too often young Christians are left alone to do this themselves. That's not what God wants. He wants you to step up and bring young Christians alongside and share with them, teach them whats right and wrong, lift them up. In the church today, mostly the interaction between young and old is criticism. Old people complaining about how young people do things and young people complaining about how old people do things. Guess what?! Neither matter. Mature Christians need to be pouring into young Christians period! I need this in my life, my wife needs this in her life, our friends need this in their lives. Just because you are older doesn't mean you get to retire from Christian service. Sorry! You picked the wrong faith for that. God has anointed you to serve and pour into younger people so that they can be the proper Christian leaders for the Church. People of integrity, humbleness and passion for Jesus. It has to be more than casual conversation. It has to be more than a hug and chit chat. We need you to pour into us. I need you to pour into me! Maybe you don't know how. Seek God. Have Him ignite a passion into you for those things! WE NEED YOU!!!

We need to stop picking on ministries that are actively trying to serve God. We have gotten this complex like we are ultra theological and we need to tout that around and flex the spiritual muscle. STOP IT!!! Have seen criticism recently for ministries like Dare2Share and IAmSecond. My first question for you, if you see it fit to criticize is, "What are you doing for the Kingdom?" These ministries will probably be more than happy to say they don't do everything right. In fact, I have heard Greg Stier actually say He does few things right. The point is they are doing something. They don't need our ridicule. They need our prayers. We we can look at our models for things and say BAM! I have it right, then maybe we can cast judgement, but do something that is actually helpful, lift them up in prayer. We do this with so many things and even people. "OH, he sleeps with the homeless. That's dangerous!" or "I can't believe they are taking a mission trip there, they should have gone there." STOP RIDICULING! Godly things are Godly things! Guess what!? God will bless them. I had to take a serious check on myself recently when I found myself passion judgement and go,"when was the last time I truly felt God's ultimate blessing?" So, maybe if certain ministries or people are reaching people, we should look inward and see what we are doing.

What happened to our love for people? It's like we have allowed ourselves to be shaped by who is immediately around us and if you are beyond that circle, we don't have time for you. For crying out loud the church is universal! I'll be honest, I made the comment recently after leaving a church,"I guess some friendships are built around a building." That's not how it should be. We need to be reaching out to one another even after we have moved on. People like to say they don't have time and I'm one of those people. Please! We all have time, it's just a matter if we want this to be a priority. Homeless and needy people need to be a priority too! Scripture is laced with a call to reach out to these kind of people. Instead we have classified them as gross and bothersome. Church, that is unacceptable. If you don't know what Scripture says about this topic, do me a favor and research it. God has major implications for us if we don't do it!

PRAY! MEAN IT! PRAY MORE! MEAN IT MORE! PRAY! PRAY! PRAY! We have made a joke out of prayer. It's just another thing we say to other people. "Yeah, I'll pray for you!" Pray meetings should be loaded with people yearning and desiring to talk to God. Our times at home should be laced with prayer and petition before our Holy God! Prayer has to take over our lives again!

This post could literally go on and on, but I'm gonna bring it to a close. Here's the point. When I was younger and more immature then I am now I love the flashy, youthful side of church. I loved the big crowds and lights and skits etc....I'm not going to say those things are bad, but I think we have allowed them to take center stage instead of being things that can enhance a church. I'm sick of the gimmicks and the mediocrity of what we have made our faith. I yearn for so much more and I can't believe I'm alone in that. We have to get back to the fundamentals of what Christ called His church to be. I truly believe that if Jesus were to walk into most of houses of worship he wouldn't recognize us. I want us as believers to be totally committed to Jesus that people will look at us with awe inspired excitement to know what we have that they don't. I don't want the term Religious to define me, but instead the term Sacrificer, because that's what we are supposed to be doing. Give it all up for Him! Most of us have never done that and then we wonder why life is so tough. It's because we keep Him close for our comfort, but we never let Him loose on our lives. God isn't a raging bull, He is polite and knocks on the door to our lives. We need to shut up and let him speak and then give Him full control. I have lived to much of my life as a Christian trying to run the show. Doing things with good intentions, but not committing it to Him. I realize that now. When things failed it wasn't because I planned poorly, because I didn't. I planned well. It wasn't because I didn't have the backing of others, because I did, sometimes didn't. It was because I didn't filter it through Him. We have to get back into the Scriptures, apply what we read and lift everything to Him in prayer. Stop trying to change God's perfect plan for us! Just do what we are told! I love Jesus with all of my heart! My actions need to show Him that and so do yours!

All about the Truth

I'm not quite sure where this is going to go. I'm just feeling moved to write something so if you are reading this, I'm sorry. I'm literally just vomiting up all that's inside me. It's been some time since I posted anything. Actually, the last post was, I guess, considered controversial. Let me be the first to say, I don't seek controversy. That is not what I'm about. I don't seek to argue or debate. That is not my nature. I will tell you this though. I seek truth. I am all about it. Truth is at the core of my nature. I say that because I always want my posts to be completely reflective of the Truth that I live my life by. Nothing else is really important. I could blog about politics or sports, both of which I follow, but neither of them is at the core of my nature. They don't hold the importance in my life like the truth that comes from God. What I'm getting at here is nothing else matters except exemplifying Him by who's mercy and grace that I am saved.

So, it has been a tough two years. Lots of changes. I don't particularly enjoy changes, so to have lots proves to be problematic for me. After deciding to resign my pastoral position and pursue missions, I thought things were going to turn out differently. I had made all these plans that I thought for sure were the correct ones. Hindsight being 20/20 I made a lot of plans and they were mostly the wrong ones. During the course of everything I didn't handle failures, rejections or negativity well. I actually handled it worse then I even believed myself to be capable of. I had preached for years on  how to deal with certain situations and for the first time in my Christian walk I was dealing with the situations and dealing with them all wrong. In fact instead of turning towards God, I was turning away from Him.

I began questioning lots of things. Did He exist? Does He really care about us? Why is all of this happening to me? It was one big giant pity party and in the midst of it all I was bringing my family down with me. There were flickers of hope along the way. Something good would happen and I would jump back on the Jesus band wagon. Even led some Bible studies during this period. Looking back it was all just a facade. I wasn't completely buying in to what I was saying. After all, I had been groomed to always have it together so that's the appearance I gave.

Now for a little back story. The changes going on that rocked my world started with my mentor and senior pastor getting sick and eventually going Home. To me that was the beginning of a long 3 year process that would change everything for me. After he got sick everything was down hill. Church leadership began changing and doing things I didn't agree with. I felt I wasn't being treated fairly behind the scenes and was constantly under scrutiny by people. I began feeling like I could never do anything right. I felt that my position was viewed as a glorified babysitter and all people wanted was for lots of kids to be showing up. And most of all I began feeling that I was failing the youth that I had been entrusted with by God. By the end of my time I had completely burned out and could not wait to be done. This had nothing to do with my ministry and the kids. I loved that. It was the politics of church. I couldn't deal with it anymore and I needed to get away.

I think looking back and realizing how I handled things didn't help my struggles. A lot of the times I was part of the problem. I didn't handle things like I should have. I would see injustices and wouldn't speak up the way I should or I would react in a way that made the situation worse. By the time I was done I was just hanging on to everything and it seemed like no one cared. I was leaving and that was fine. Missions was supposed to be the answer to my tattered soul. That didn't happen. The stress from student loan debt and poor financial decisions was taking it's toll on Colleen and I. Everything was quickly unraveling. Like I said earlier, there were glimpses of hope that I know God gave us to sustain us. We kept trying to move forward in missions and at every step of the way would hit some type of roadblock. It was straining us more than we let on, especially me since I was the husband and I'm suppose to lead my family. During this time we were trying to put on smiling faces and be at the same church I served. I guess I was trying to prove to myself that my toughest critics hadn't gotten the best of me, but in reality they had. That place was not the same place for me and after 10 years I had to make a hard decision for my family. We decided to move on.

I know during this whole period I had this feeling that people were the problem. That those critics had ruined me. I guess to a degree that was true. But the realization came and was even harder to take. After, making the decision to move on, we also made the decision to put missions on hold. This was not an easy decision, but one that was not unknown to me. I had known deep down for months that it was the right choice, but couldn't bring myself to it. I felt that it would reopen old wounds that had begun to heal somewhat. We made our decision, but didn't reveal it for several more months. During this transition we found Pathway Church. This was the breath of fresh air we needed, that I needed. Over the following months God began to heal my heart and do a work in me. We had found our new church home.

 During that whole time I harbored bitterness, I still do to some extent. It has been hard to let some things go, but I'm relying on God to take those things from me in time. The main lesson I learned from this had nothing to do with anyone else. It had everything to do with me. My lack of faith, my lack of passion, my lack of desire to do things God's way. You may think I'm being a little hard on myself and that's fine. It's my sin though. I cannot and will not make excuses for it. I have only one choice and that's to meet it head on and defeat it. It may seem odd for me to be pouring this out at this point, but it is a healing process for my soul. This is my story that is still being written.

The past 3 years have shaped and molded me. I would like to think into a more seasoned follower of Jesus. It has strengthened my marriage and desire to be a better husband and father. It has reinvigorated my joy and desire to serve youth unashamedly without all the pomp and circumstance and instead with the truth of the Gospel, and more than anything it has brought me to a place where I have a renewed passion for my Father God, my King Jesus and Mediator Holy Spirit! No matter what life throws at me, no matter what church politics bring, no matter who doesn't believe in what I'm doing I will serve Him without reservation because He always believes in me and stands for truth and truth has to be what I'm all about!

The Greater Issue

I have been reflecting on whether or not to say anything regarding same-sex marriage. I am not one to debate in the virtual world as it lacks the personal connection and knowledge of tone and demeanor. But several things I have seen come out of this have been unsettling to me, so I felt I needed to state my feelings.

First and foremost, I believe and serve the One true God, the God of the Bible, the Creator of the world. He is Sovereign over all and all are subject to Him. He is loving, merciful, forgiving and just. With that being said, my viewpoints are based on Him and Him alone. Not my opinion or feelings. Definitely not based on how somehow feels or their opinions. My faith in the God who sent His Son Jesus to die for my sins and the worlds sins trumps any man made issue and its "opinions". With that said, I believe in marriage. I believe in marriage between a man and woman as God, the one I believe in, ordained it to be.

Now whether or not you believe in God really doesn't matter because He exists regardless of your ignorance. I myself was ignorant to His existance at one point too. So, since God ordained marriage, the question I have to ask is, "when did marriage become a legal right given by the government?" At that question, I will have to say I believe that one of the greatest schemes satan has moved us to believe is that marriage is not a God issue and is instead one of legality enforceable by the government. Marriage is God's baby, folks! If you think about it it's a brilliant scheme, though. Look at what is happening because of it. Constant debates going, people fighting with one another, Christians abandoning God's direction for the opinion of the masses so people can be happy and Christians making complete fools of themselves by protesting and slandering others. Marriage is not supposed to be a legal matter. Marriage is supposed to be the joining together and commitment of two people, male and female, to each other before a Holy God. So, lets be clear, my viewpoints from this one are based on God's ordination of what marriage is.

Just a quick note here. I saw this several times and I want to rebuke it right now. Jesus would not ever be ok with same sex marriage. Does Jesus love us? You bet he does, but He loves God the Father more and will obey Him always. Please do not misrepresent the person that Jesus is, because as much as God is just, so is Christ. That doesn't mean He loves any less, but it does mean He expects us to obey the Father as He does.

I also feel like people are taking the term judgement and misusing it a great deal. Now, I won't argue that there are many people out there on both sides of any issue that judge harshly. But I cannot sit back and say that as a believer in Christ and a person who has been commissioned to share the Word with others, that my job is not one to  cast judgement from time to time. In our society we have made judgement something that is negative and filled with hate. Well, I serve a just God. One who judges all with love as a catalyst. He judges because He cares, not because He hates everyone. So, to sit back and say, "well you don't support same-sex marriage, so you hate them and you are so judgemental" is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. My judgement is based on love, because as I mentioned that marriage is from God and I believe that when you go against the plan of God, that is sin. I do not want anyone to sin, ever. I don't want to sin either. And I always expect to be called out when I do. It lets me know people care. It has nothing to do with negativity and malice as some seem to want to make it.

Since I brought it up, lets talk about love for a moment. Love is something that is very hard to understand because I believe that the Love of God(Agape) is near unfathomable. We have skewed it so much in our culture. I mean, my two year old says he loves cars and movies. We have to keep on point here. This debate has nothing to do with love. You can love who ever you want. That's not the point. The point is about marriage. I love a lot of things that doesn't mean I get to marry them and lets be honest, there are lots of things in life we don't get even though we want them. We have turned into a society of one that demands things just because we have a want. Just because you want something doesn't mean it's good for you. That includes marriage. By the way, that includes marriage for people who are not homosexual aswell.

One thing that is being said that really bothers me is that since I don't believe homosexuals can marry I hate them and I'm wrong. Well, I didn't know that in order to know someone or love someone I had to agree with everything you feel, think, believe...... Just like this article. You don't have to like or believe any of it. That doesn't mean I hate you or think we can't be friends. My personal beliefs aside, we need to stop thinking everyone has to have the same mindset on issues and if not they hate people. That's ludicrous! Furthermore, people must really think I hate people since I not only believe homosexuals shouldn't marry, I don't think they should date either! I also, don't believe that straight couples should live together or have sex before marriage. I must hate them too! I hope you see my point.

This issue is greater than the minimal issues of what we as people want. This issue is truly about God and our relationship to Him. As a true, born-again believer in Christ my obligation is to my God, not to man. It's definitely not to the feelings people have for one another, which is unfortunately what people have made this about. If you are reading this as a person that does not have faith in Jesus and feels I'm wrong, I challenge you to seek Him out and learn more. If you are reading this as a believer and feel I'm wrong, I challenge you to seek Him as well and put your own opinions aside and truly reflect upon what God would want from this.

This has always been about Him and our rejection of His rules when it conflicts with our desires. This is a small issue compared to the greater issue that is following God completely despite our wants. That's what we have to decide as a people. What is more important to us? The things of this world or the eternal things of God. I hope and pray that you choose wisely, because the choices we make now do resound in eternity.